2020 was the worst year, but somewhere we all hoped that the coming year would bring back our good ol' days but 2021 was like “Abey saale”.
Things were getting progressively worse, but in the midst of all this, I've been hearing a lot about depression, on social media platforms, where people were concerned, showing their support for individuals who been dealing with the kind of mental health issue.
Individuals, who are not that good at maintaining the relationship will find it hard to cope with this situation, and what makes me say that right? because I was going through that same sickness. In contrast, many other people are not likely to acknowledge the fact that Loneliness is a real issue in one's life, as they aren't giving any importance to it probably in their mind it will be like it's a thing which will be solved like in a couple of hours and that's it, they won't bother much and even if we mention it , it will be considered as something which a tablet can cure they will be like oh, so which tablet son, crocin?
That's a mild exaggeration though, but actually, they don't know how to deal with this issue where we start to feel like we are all alone, with anxiety, panic attacks, and due to the lack of care, many are suffering from this state of mind.
There are still many common misconceptions related to loneliness one of them is that, it hinders the life of young ones only, and it's just a "phase" and to in their growing stage they say, but it is completely wrong. In this pandemic period where we all have to sit inside our homes due to lockdown consequently, there came a pause in our life there's no deadline no meeting no assignments well, initially, we enjoyed that to some extent, but slowly most of us were going insane, it seems there's no purpose to continue anything, and we all felt that regardless of any age.
We all tried many things to stay in a fresh mood but as days passed by, our will to continue the same process faded, started to feel exhausted, the sad part is that you can't do anything good while sitting inside your home now pls don't act like you been enjoying the days while exploring skill sets cooking, singing, making dalgona? really dude, okay no offense like I have also tried that it might be good for some external validation, but it didn't help me though.
See my point is you can't do things without having a proper relationship in your life there will always be a void, and you may not acknowledge it, but when times like this occur where you have to spend your days in a building, you will definitely going to have some kind of fatigue, isolated feeling with some intense anxiety and panic that's called loneliness which makes us vulnerable. So one thing is clear we can't survive without human interaction we need each other when we face this kind of vulnerable state of mind.
Now let's talk about the individuals who term themselves as Lonely, I have seen many people on the internet saying that they have no one to talk to and things, my only question is that why are you claiming yourself as that person, and while doing that you are convincing your own brain that you don't have anybody, simply turning that as your reality, the worst part is that the people who tag themselves as “lonely” they might have never tried to socialize with anybody besides, they never put effort to talk anyone head straight in the entire life, not saying to start a conversion in an extreme level but at least just try to have a basic talk, and if you haven't done that part then why are you declaring yourself as a lone wolf ?.
Now, here comes another group of people who were fully dedicated and busy in their work life, so hectic that they don't even have any connection with their friends nor any particular relation beyond their office boundaries, now when the lockdown started they got a break from the work pressures, at the same time they had the void inside them, and due to this constant tug of emotions they did try to reach out and rediscover their close ones, but what happens is that they both face difficulty and a sense awkwardness while having a normal talk itself. It's majorly due to the long gap that came between them during the time which impacts negatively, now all these things add to loneliness.
TAKEAWAY
Hopefully, if you read till here then kudos to you buddy, actually these are merely some observations that are very evident at these times. I am damn sure that you guys also experienced these things at some point in time, so don't ever try to make wrong assumptions in your mind.
Do talk, and feel free to open up it can possibly change your mood, never break the special bonds that you have, and many are going through some pain-ass issues in their life.
lastly, if you are going through some shit level of the situation, just figure the way out of it, rather than losing your sanity, once you did that then the next time onwards, whenever you encounter something like this you can easily tackle coz you dealt with that earlier also, the situation might be different for you this time, but now you know how to get through it.
